The reception tonight
I'm very much looking forward to seeing everyone tonight.
(Poppy, will you have Healers transporting those too wobbly to manage their own apparition? Because I'd be available to help with side along, if you could use another hand.)
(Poppy, will you have Healers transporting those too wobbly to manage their own apparition? Because I'd be available to help with side along, if you could use another hand.)
Private message to Hydra
I hope the house elf found you with that basket I sent? I did find Raising Your Witch and Raising Your Wizard to be the most helpful mothering books of all the scores that I read. I hope you find them as helpful as I did. But I'm sure you'll do splendidly.
Re: Private message to Hydra
This might be an odd question, but do you think that sometime soon, we might sit together while you hold Charlotte? And if you can please not occlude at all while doing so... I think I can keep to the tasks of caring for a baby well enough. But I want to make sure that
Sorry. I want to know if the things I feel and think are normal, too.
I suppose I'm just worried I might have something wrong with me, or be missing something? Because of how I was raised. And I know what a good mother you are.
I already know that I love her, but if she doesn't stop crying and I feel overwhelmed and stressed, for example, is that normal?
Re: Private message to Hydra
It's perfectly normal. Babies cries are meant to be distressing, because how could babies survive if their mothers didn't rush to soothe the baby so they stop making those awful sounds? Feeling distressed when she is distressed is a sign that you'll be an excellent mother, because you truly care to keep her happy, do you see?
And yes, I imagine that will rather different than how you were raised.
It is possible to be a good mother, even if you had a terrible one yourself, trust me. Now, I was fortunate to have a loving family, but I know woman who had to teach themselves, or turn to mentors, because they have no happy memories of being loved by their own mothers.
I would be happy to do any experiment you would like, if that would help reassure you.
The key, remember, is that if you feel overwhelmed, ask for help. Which is exactly what you doing right here, right now, with me. So you see? You are off to a very fine start.
Re: Private message to Hydra
My Aunt Narcissa and my grandmother Nanella showed me affection. So did Daddy.
But... I don't know if it can make up for not getting any from your mother.
Re: Private message to Hydra
But dear, when we grow up, we learn that not only do we have the family we are born into, we have the families we choose. And those families we choose can teach us what we need to know, that we might not have learned in our first families.
I know, from watching the two of you, that you loved Justin. You truly did, Hydra, despite the fact that you had very little example of a loving marriage to follow from watching your own parents, isn't that right?
Forgive me for bringing it up, because (as a widow myself!) I know that thinking about what happened to him is incredibly painful. But take hope from that, from the fact that you knew how to love Justin, despite not having any example at home. Given that, you can trust that you will be able to love your baby.
Re: Private message to Hydra
But thank you.
Private message to Hermione Granger
I couldn't possibly imagine anyone more deserving, dear. Well done!
Re: Private message to Hermione Granger
He would have been. I miss him so much, every day.
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Private message to Linus Moon
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Private message to Ron (and Sally-Anne)
I glanced in your quarters at the castle that you've moved out of, and I found one of your jumpers wedged down between the cushions of the sofa. The one I knit for your two--no, three Christmases ago? Maroon, of course, but the one with the cross-hatch pattern at the waistband.
Shall I bring it to the party?
Re: Private message to Ron (and Sally-Anne)
You know what, though? Don't bring it to the party. (I'll just forget it at the Manor, probably, if you do. I mean, it's not like I want carry a wool jumper around all evening!)
I'll, uh, pick it up next time we come for supper, yeah?
Re: Private message to Ron (and Sally-Anne)
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I'm starting the jumpers for next Christmas, and you should certainly expect to see something along those lines with your packages on Christmas morning. Is there a favourite colour, or yarn you'd like me to use?
I have a cable knit pattern that looks suggestive of very graceful snakes--Slytherin, you know!--if you think that would be nice?
(And I should measure you to get your size, dear.)
Private message to Jeremy Stretton
Now, I know you'll be making the announcement tonight, so I wanted to assure you I haven't breathed a word to anyone!
Re: Private message to Jeremy Stretton
We're asking Bill tonight if he'll be best man.
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Private message to Frank and Alice
But you deserve to bask in a great deal of glory tonight, so please don't begrudge us for honouring you tonight. I just wanted you to know that I am so glad that Arthur joined forces with you to save so many children.
Albion has been so lucky to have you, leading the way from the very beginning.
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Private message to Mum
Already working the room like a pro, and the party hasn't even started yet.
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Will Rachel be coming? Will Charlie?
I'll have to speak with Hermione about making sure there is a room set aside for people who want things to be quieter. Luna and Terry, I suppose.
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And I won't crowd him. I promise solemnly.
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Private message to Fred and George
No pranks!
Re: Private message to Fred and George
But we get the point. Too many convalescents.
And too many people grieving.
Right. We'll behave.
Re: Private message to Fred and George
It would be a poor way to repay Draco's hospitality--the first time he's hosting us, too!--to break something that costs more than the entire value of the Burrow and all its contents. Goodness.
Private message to the ones we've loved and lost
But I still hope that what comes next will be worthy of all the sacrifices made. Especially yours.
There's so much I wish I could say to all of you, both the ones we lost years ago--Gideon, Fabian, you still hover in the back of my mind practically every day--and the ones who laid down their lives just this past weekend. It has been hard, and so upsetting, but I wish with all my heart that you could see the small victories we've had. The children from Moddey Dhoo are free to live openly with their families again, and some of them will actually be arriving at Hogwarts tomorrow. More Sleepers are awakening every day, so the wounds in so many families who were torn apart are beginning to heal. Some of them.
Aurora says the last of the wards will likely fade away and disappear sometime this week. It seems just unbelievable that the prison walls are finally coming down and all of us--muggles, squibs, muggleborn, wizarding folk, and all the other free magical peoples of Albion--we'll all be able to mingle openly in the sun.
We hope you are happy. We hope you are at peace. Some of us are hurting terribly, and some of us are grieving afresh from missing you. But we will be all right.
We will be all right.
You made it possible.
We will never forget you, never.
Thank you.
[Arthur, dear man, I love you. How I wish I could feel your arms around me this day.]