Alice,
First of all, I want you to know that when I confronted Fred and George, they ended up confessing their role in Ron's latest...manoeuvres, with the challenges. I made them swear they won't be forwarding any more experimental products to aid one or another candidate--unless you order it and all candidates agree. I do think their promise will hold.
I want to say something to Ron. I was angry, of course, furious, but a Howler is out of the question, and besides, I know perfectly well he wouldn't react at all well to my scolding him like a child. But I can see he's been sending plenty of private messages, although he hasn't said anything to me.
Should I be worried? Should I wait for him to say something to me, or--what would you suggest?
First of all, I want you to know that when I confronted Fred and George, they ended up confessing their role in Ron's latest...manoeuvres, with the challenges. I made them swear they won't be forwarding any more experimental products to aid one or another candidate--unless you order it and all candidates agree. I do think their promise will hold.
I want to say something to Ron. I was angry, of course, furious, but a Howler is out of the question, and besides, I know perfectly well he wouldn't react at all well to my scolding him like a child. But I can see he's been sending plenty of private messages, although he hasn't said anything to me.
Should I be worried? Should I wait for him to say something to me, or--what would you suggest?
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Date: 2014-04-30 03:48 am (UTC)And Molly -- I can only imagine what you're feeling at the moment. But if it helps matters, I believe he's thoroughly learned his lesson. He also offered a sincere apology to Draco, and I consider the matter resolved. As far as his recent activity, he's very much taking to heart what I asked for, to keep Harry and his fellow competitors informed and aware, which I wholly appreciate.
You're quite wise when it comes to teenage boys, and I think you're right -- too much lecturing can turn things sour, and obscure the message.
I've been talking a great deal lately to Severus about what it means to provide support without fear of judgement -- how sometimes, simply offering unconditional trust, love, and respect can be quite a boon. I certainly hope to try and foster that environment as best I can.
One of the things I think about when I think of you is your deep and endless capacity for love, Molly. It's one of your greatest strengths. All our young people are going through such a stressful time right now -- Ron included -- and it can never hurt for him to hear that he has your support.
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Date: 2014-04-30 04:12 am (UTC)Thank you, Alice.